It's my ex girlfriends wedding today. I got invited, b
ut have to work on some urgent matters. Anyway, we cam
e to Dubai together, but lost interest pretty soon afterwar
ds. We know each other for about 7 years now and where
best mates before we got together. We still call to s
ee how the other one is doing etc. No hard feelin
gs between us!!!

My question, but first a bit of bac
k ground. In SA we love partying, BBing for the ones on thi
s site and rugby. My XGF is getting married to a Spanish du
de who obviously have a passion for soccer. About a week ba
ck she called me and we spoke for an hour and a half.....an
d a couple of questions from my side let me to understand t
hat they are going to have kids ASAP ( she's 22, he's 30) a
nd that if it's a boy he's going to play, not rugby, but fo
r Barcelona-soccer.

When we where together (for 2 ye
ars) she said that she will get married on 30( concentrate
on career), have kids mid 30's and that the boy's would rep
resent their country playing rugby. No offense, but in SA s
occer gets some bad comments about it being a girls sport..
.Who am I to judge, but that's the general impression.
< >BRSo in a period of over a year, her mind completely chang
ed. This does happen, but there are a lot of girls who chan
ge drastically when their with a new guy. Why is this and d
on't you chica's now it's kinda irritating to be with someo
ne that doesn't have their own personality? 
< >BRCould a wise woman or man just tell me WTF is going on??
? or is it some sub concience jealousy...